Just a Little Bite
Genesis 2:15-3:24 (HCSB)
We are all tempted by different things. It depends on the person and what they
are tempted by the most. Some
people are most tempted by food.
Some people are tempted by possessions. Some people are tempted by sex, power, and money. The list goes on and on. Me personally, I’m tempted by the
desire to own more DVD’s. A temptation I am sorry to admit I give into and have
accumulated probably higher than I can count.
What people are tempted by can also depend on the situation
they are in or where they are in their walk with God. The story we are going to look at today involves two people
who were tempted with something they were led to believe would make their lives
better. Because of their
situation, Satan knew exactly what to use and what to say to get them to give
into his crafty ways.
Satan may not be the smartest guy in the world, but he is
most definitely top five. Meaning,
you and I are not smarter than he is; and there is no way, when we are being
tempted, we can outwit him by ourselves.
We need God’s wisdom and discernment to overcome temptation so we don’t
fall into sin.
Story Time:
After God created everything, he gave the man (aka Adam)
instructions on how to live. Life
was pretty easy for Adam in the beginning, just three instructions by God. Wouldn’t it be nice if all we had to
live by were three rules? Adam had
to 1) take care of the land, 2) make sure everything ran smoothly and 3) eat from
everything but one tree found in the middle of the garden. Must have been nice to be the guy who
got to come up with all the names of the animals. Do you think he had a checklist to make sure he didn’t
double up on a name? There’s an
app for that, right?
The Garden of Eden was full of everything Adam could
possibly need to survive. There
was water, vegetables, and fruit.
The guy had more pets to take care of than the lonely old lady down the
street with more cats than we have fingers. Adam also had a special tree know as the tree of knowledge
of good and evil. God asked him
not to eat its fruit. God even
told him if he did, he would die.
As Adam was naming all the animals God realized that Adam
didn’t have anybody to hang out with.
According to verse eighteen (Genesis 2) he didn’t have a “helper as his
complement.” So God took Adam’s
rib and created woman who Adam later named Eve. Genesis 2:21 says, “So the Lord God caused a deep sleep to
come over the man, and he slept. God took one of his ribs and closed the flesh
at that place.” This has always
put the idea of out there that men have one less rib than women. The fact is both men and women have a
total of twenty-four ribs, twelve on each side. Maybe man had one extra before the world’s first surgery was
performed? Maybe when God took one
to create woman, he snapped his fingers and formed a new one in Adam to replace
the one he took? But why even take
one at all? If man was made from
dust then why not woman as well? A
thought we will talk about after the story is over.
Satan now comes onto the scene and asks a very simple but twisted
question in verse one of chapter three,
“Did God really say, ‘You can’t eat from any tree in the garden’?” Satan knows full well the answer to
that question, but begins to plant the thought in Eve’s head of possibly eating
from the tree of knowledge of good and evil. Eve corrects him by saying in verses two and three, “We may
eat the fruit from the trees in the garden. But about the fruit of the tree in the middle of the garden,
God said, ‘You must not eat it or touch it, or you will die.’ ” But of course Satan works his magic
again by informing Eve the death God talked about will not be a physical
one. He tells her that she will
become more like God in knowing good and evil. BAM! Satan
delivers a whammy! Eve gets hit
with the temptation of obtaining wisdom like God. Be like God and know what he knows. Who could pass that up?!
So when Eve realizes the fruit can make her smarter, her
stomach starts to rumble and she takes a bite of that delicious banana. I mean delicious plum. No wait, delicious grapefruit. Oh, I got it…apple. She took a bite of a delicious apple. The fact is, we don’t truly know what
kind of fruit was on that tree, but we always default to an apple. Why is that? Here is my theory, and it is just a theory, fairy tales. Tales like Snow White have used an
apple to represent evil. So why
not use an apple to represent the evil poison (sin) used to destroy the
relationship between God and us.
However, just like a fairy tale always has a happy ending, we will
reveal the good news about this story later.
But where is Adam in all this? Right there with her.
In Genesis 3:6 it says that after Eve took a bite of the fruit she “gave
some to her husband [who was] with her, and he ate [it]”. When they both took that sinful bite
they gained the knowledge Satan talked about and realized they were naked. They took fig leaves and made clothes
for themselves to cover up their nakedness and then hid from God. This has always made me laugh. I mean, who plays hide-and-go-seek from
God? Wouldn’t he be the ultimate
hide-and-go-seek player?
Adam explains to God they were afraid and hid when they
heard him walking in the garden.
Here again is a part that has always made me laugh; God, who already
knows the answer, asks how they knew they were naked and if they ate from the
tree they were not supposed to eat from.
Instead of just saying yes, Adam starts the blame game. He blames Eve. Eve blames Satan. It’s a mess. The thing is, when we fall into temptation, nobody is
completely blameless. Satan is at
fault for tempting Eve. Eve is at
fault for not obeying God. Adam is
at fault for not obeying God and not being the leader of his family and
stopping Eve from eating the fruit.
Due to the fact that sin has now occurred, God has to dish
out the punishments. To each he
gives the following:
Then the Lord God said to the serpent:
Because
you have done this,
you
are cursed more than any livestock
and
more than any wild animal.
You
will move on your belly
and
eat dust all the days of your life.
I
will put hostility between you and the woman,
and
between your seed and her seed.
He
will strike your head,
and
you will strike his heel.
He said to the woman:
I
will intensify your labor pains;
you
will bear children in anguish.
Your
desire will be for your husband,
yet
he will rule over you.
And He said to Adam, “Because you
listened to your wife’s voice and ate from the tree about which I commanded
you, ‘Do not eat from it’:
The
ground is cursed because of you.
You
will eat from it by means of painful labor
all
the days of your life.
It
will produce thorns and thistles for you,
and
you will eat the plants of the field.
You
will eat bread by the sweat of your brow
until
you return to the ground,
since
you were taken from it.
For
you are dust,
and
you will return to dust.” (Genesis 3:14-19)
God now has to make Adam and Eve leave the Garden of Eden
because they have sinned. He gives
them clothes and blocks the entrance to the garden with cherubim and a flaming
sword so they can’t eat the fruit from the tree of life and live forever. Adam and Eve now have to work the land,
grow their own crops and raise their own livestock.
My Thoughts:
A few things I think we can learn from Adam and Eve. I think this short story most commonly
known as the “fall of man” teaches us about sin, relationships and God’s love
for us.
On the outside this seems like a sad story, and for the most
part it is one, but if we slap a “to be continued…” label on the end it really
perks up. Why? Because this is the beginning of God’s
plan to send his only son, Jesus, to die for our sins. Of course Jesus dying on the cross is
also sad, but the reason behind it is the happy part. Adam and Eve damaged our relationship with God by disobeying
and eating the fruit. Now that sin
entered the world, it meant people could no longer be in the presence of God
like Adam and Eve were in the Garden of Eden. God is so holy and perfect he cannot be around sin. In order for sin to be taken away,
something has to die. Which was
why the Israelites had to sacrifice animals that were without blemishes and
defects, because only perfect blood can wash away sin. Enter Jesus. Jesus offers himself as a sacrifice on the cross so his
super perfect blood can be spilled and used to wash away sin. Jesus’ blood being so perfect covered
all sin till the end of time, hence the reason why we don’t currently sacrifice
animals. I know a set of twins who
are highly thankful we don’t have to do that today. It means a lot less crying for them. But what it really means is Jesus
restored the relationship between God and us. Now with a prayer of forgiveness we can enter into God’s
presence and be a part of him.
Jesus’ death on the cross is a sad thing to think about, but it is such
a beautiful display of how much God loves us.
Not only do we see the relationship between God and man and
his love for us, but we also see parts of how the relationship should work as a
family. Eve was made from a part
of Adam, not from dust. Meaning
man is supposed to be both the physical and spiritual leader of his family. Paul explains this very nicely in his
letter to the Ephesians by saying, “Wives, submit to your own husbands as to
the Lord, for the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the
church. He is the Savior of the body.
Now as the church submits to Christ, so wives are to submit to their
husbands in everything. Husbands,
love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself for her
(Ephesians 5:22-25). There is an
equal balance of love and respect between a husband and a wife, but a healthy
understanding man is the leader.
Have each other’s backs and help each other out. But men, you need to lead, teach, guide
and direct your family in the ways of the Lord. If Adam would have stepped up in being the leader of his
family, maybe Satan would have had to come up with another way to tempt them
and make them sin?
As a pastor I have talked with a few people who feel bad
when they are tempted and of course feel worse when they give into the
temptation. But here’s the
thing…it’s not wrong to be tempted.
What is wrong about it is when we give into the temptation and therefore
sin. Now being tempted doesn’t
feel good because we know what it can lead to if we give in, but we need to
remember what it can lead to if we don’t concede to temptation. Not falling into the temptation is
hard, but rewarding when we don’t.
It brings us closer to God and makes our faith and walk with him
stronger. Plus it makes God happy
and proud. Bonus! But, it’s so hard (said with a whiney 4
year old voice). And you are
right; it is hard – very hard. But
we have a God who lives inside our hearts that gives us the strength and wisdom
to overcome temptation. Remember
this verse (one of my personal favorites) next time you are faced with
temptation. “No temptation has
overtaken you except what is common to humanity. God is faithful, and He will
not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation
He will also provide a way of escape so that you are able to bear it” (1
Corinthians 10:13).
Discussion Questions:
- What are the things you are tempted by the most? Why?
- What are some steps you can take or preventative measures you can put in place to help you not fall into temptation?
- Even if we don’t give in, why do we feel so bad when we are tempted?
- Read the entire chapter of 1 Corinthians 10 out loud (don’t worry – it is not that long) and keep your Bible open there, the next few questions are going to be based on this chapter. What can we learn from Adam and Eve in the garden and the Israelites traveling in the desert about overcoming temptation?
- What do verses 14 – 22 remind us about ourselves when faced with a situation? Can we handle it alone?
- Discuss what verse 23 means. Keep in mind things in your life that may or may not be a temptation for you and how it could affect those around you.
- Looking at verses 31-33 how should we go about our lives in all we do?
- If you are married and your spouse is with you, turn and face them and respond to each other with answers to these questions. Men – in what ways can you step up and become a better leader of your family. Ladies – how can you support your husband to help encourage and respect his efforts of being your family’s leader?
- One last thing…make sure you end in prayer.