Wednesday, July 2, 2014

A Parallel Life

A Parallel Life
Genesis 37:1-23; 39:1-45:15 (HCSB)

Allow me to start off this chapter with a question for you to think about or discuss with your family or small group…
If somebody were to watch a movie about your life, would they try to compare you to Jesus?

Have you noticed how we try to compare things to Christianity or even Jesus?  I bet you can think of a movie that could closely relate to Jesus.  I have heard people say movies like The Matrix, The Lord of the Rings or even Superman Returns all have elements that point towards Jesus.  I even have books on my shelf that look into media and how it can be tied into Jesus, faith, and Christianity.  One of them is titled The Gospel Reloaded, and the book explores spirituality and faith found in The Matrix.  Ok, I can see how certain things in those movies can be looked at with some similarity to Jesus.  There is another book on my shelf, The Gospel According to The Simpsons.  This book talks about all of the spiritual elements found in the TV series and how they point to different religions and their beliefs.  Yes, there are a lot of religious elements found in that show, but there is no way I would ever think The Simpsons was intentionally written for us to look to Jesus.  I even have a hard time believing The Matrix or Superman Returns were written to reflect Christ.

Now please, don’t get me wrong, I love movies.  I mean I really love movies.  My wife can attest to my love (she calls addiction) to movies.  I use them all the time when preaching or teaching to help illustrate a point.  One church I worked for in Maryland did a series every summer based on current Hollywood movies and what we can learn from them.  Great stuff can be taught from watching other people go through life’s trials and experiences, but I simply have a hard time believing certain movies were made to tell about Jesus. 

I am not trying to make fun of anybody who sees Christ portrayed through certain media.  If they see it and feel God there, then that is something between them and God; and I am in no place to argue or judge.  All I am saying is if you want an attention-grabbing movie to reach people and tell the greatest story ever…then make a movie about Jesus.  Examples…The Passion of The Christ and Son of God.

But there are stories that point towards Jesus and should be looked at with Jesus in mind.  Which ones are they?  Every single story found in the Bible.  There is a fantastic children’s book written by Sally Llyod-Jones called The Jesus Storybook Bible: Every Story Whispers His Name.  She tells the stories of the Bible and how Jesus is present or pointed to in every single part of scripture, and I could not agree with her more!

Our story today is one I believe points towards the life of Jesus.  When Joseph is taught about, we very often pick apart his life using this instance or that moment.  What if we looked at his life in one big story all at once from his dreams till he brings his family to Egypt? I believe the story of Joseph parallels Jesus’ life so closely, we see God’s plan for what Jesus would eventually do for us.  Keep Jesus’ life in mind while you ready about Joseph.

Story Time:
Joseph’s Life: Dreams to Brother Reveal
Jacob, who was also called Israel, lived in the land of Canaan and had many sons, one known as Joseph.  When Joseph was about seventeen years old, he would tend the sheep with his brothers and report back to Jacob what was going on out in the pasture. 

Jacob made for Joseph a robe of many colors because he loved Joseph more than any of his other sons.  This robe would have been very beautiful and very expensive because of the high cost of the colored threads used to make it, not the type of clothing you would have seen a shepherd wearing.  This robe was a one of a kind and not duplicated for the other brothers.  It became obvious that Jacob loved Joseph more than the rest of them and they hated him deeply.  They couldn’t even speak to him in a loving way.

Joseph then begins having dreams.  These aren’t just any old dreams about flying or swimming in ice cream, these were prophetic dreams, dreams about the future and what God had in-store for Joseph.  As we will see later, God gave Joseph the ability to interpret dreams and help people understand what they meant.

He tells his brothers his first dream by saying, “’There we were, binding sheaves of grain in the field.  Suddenly my sheaf stood up, and your sheaves gathered around it and bowed down to my sheaf’” (Genesis 37:7).  I guess when all you do all day is work in the fields, you dream about grain.  Doesn’t sound like the kind of dream you wake up from excited to tell others…but Joseph did.  He told his brothers, and instead of them being curious about the dream, they hated even more because the dream implied Joseph would rule over them.

You think Joseph would have learned from the mocking he received from his first dream; he would have kept the next one to himself.  Well he didn’t learn, and he didn’t keep it to himself.  He not only told his brothers the dream, but his father as well.  In this dream the sun, moon and eleven stars bowed down to him.  Of course this made his brothers jealous of him and hate him even more.  His father, Jacob, even rebuked him saying, “What is this dream?  Do you think we are all going to bow to you?”  However, even though Jacob rebuked him, he kept the thought in the back of his mind.

Sometime later Joseph’s brothers were tending flocks near the town of Schechem.  Israel (also known as Jacob) sends Joseph to go check on them and bring a report back to him.  Now Joseph being the good obedient son does what his father asks, but did he not remember his brothers hate him?  Did that thought not pass through his head and say, “Sure dad, if you really want me to do this, I will.  But I don’t think it is such a good idea on account of MY BROTHERS HATE MY GUTS!!”  Maybe Joseph really had no idea his brothers felt the way they did?  Maybe he did know, but didn’t really care what they thought about him?  This is the part in the movie where you are yelling at the TV, “Really Joseph?!  Don’t go!  They want to hurt you!”  All we know is he is told to go and he obeys.

Let’s quickly look at a list of reasons Joseph’s brothers hated him so much before we continue on with our story.  This will help us better understand why there was such hatred.
1.     Joseph was the youngest.  Do you have a younger sibling who you feel gets more attention than you do?
2.     Joseph was given nice gifts while his brothers did not.  Imagine how you would feel left out or unfairly treated if your younger brother or sister got a really nice expensive gift and you got nothing.  Would you wonder why?
3.     Joseph was the son of Rachel and Jacob’s favorite.  Jacob had 4 wives – Leah, Rachel, Bilhah and Zilpah.  Bilhah and Zilpah were also the maidservants of Leah and Rachel.  Leah was a very unattractive woman who was Rachel’s sister and the first women Jacob married.  He was tricked into marrying her and didn’t really want to.  His heart was always set on Rachel.  A beautiful woman, whom he married, loved more than anything and only gave him two children, Joseph and Benjamin.
4.     Joseph had dreams, the he shared to his family, about how he was going to be greater and rule over them. Obviously it created hatred and jealousy.
5.     I’m sure there are even more reasons as to why Joseph was so hated by his brothers that it caused them to contemplate murder.

Joseph’s brothers seeing him coming in the distance and they begin to talk about killing him.  Their hatred and jealousy had gotten so bad; they were willing to kill their own brother.  They were going to hide his body in a deep pit or cistern and say he was attacked and killed by a wild animal.  All that just so they didn’t have to listen to his dreams anymore.

As they were plotting how to kill Joseph, Reuben, the oldest brother, steps in and tries to save Joseph.  He convinces them to not kill Joseph, but instead just toss him into one of the deep pits.  Now we can speculate why Reuben stepped in, but all we know was his intentions were to save Joseph, come back for him and return him to his father.  Probably to try and earn some points on the “who does daddy love more scale” so he could at least be the second favorite.  Especially since, according to Genesis 35:22, Reuben sleeps with Bilhah, his stepmother, which doesn’t make Jacob happy.  The point is, we don’t know the true meaning behind Ruben’s intentions; all we know is he was able to keep Joseph alive.

Joseph reaches his brothers and as soon as he does, they grabbed him, tore off his robe given to him by Jacob and tossed him into one of the pits.  I wonder if Joseph was surprised when his brothers attacked him?  Maybe he had been expecting something to happen to him if he had any indication that his brothers hated him?  Either way, I can only imagine he was scared and heartbroken by the events that just took place.

The brothers sit down for a meal and see some Ishmaelite travelers in the distance.  At this point Judah steps in and speaks up to sell Joseph to the Ishmaelites instead of killing him.  They all seem to agree with this new plan and sell Joseph for 20 pieces of silver.  Joseph is now under the control of these Ishmaelite travelers and is taken to Egypt.

Apparently Reuben was not around for the selling transaction of Joseph, because verse 29 of Genesis chapter 37 indicates he returned to find Joseph gone.  Reuben then tears his clothes upon seeing Joseph gone as a sign of sadness or being distraught.  We don’t know if Reuben tore his clothes because his plan had be foiled to return Joseph to his father; or if he thought he brothers had gone ahead with the plan to kill him.  Most people believe the latter.  Maybe it was a little of both?

In order to cover up the fact that Joseph was missing, the brothers slaughtered a goat and dipped Joseph’s robe in the blood.  Hoping to fool their father into thinking Joseph was dead they took him the now blood stained robe for him to see.  When Jacob saw the robe covered in blood he tore his clothes, put sackcloth around his waist, mourned for several days.  His children tried to comfort him, but he refused.  As for Joseph…the Ishmaelites sold him to Potiphar, an Egyptian and captain of the guard.

Joseph now begins a new life in Egypt serving under Potiphar.  God blessed Joseph in everything he did and Potiphar came to notice how everything Joseph did or was a part of he was very successful.  When Potiphar saw this, he placed Joseph in charge of everything he owned and of his entire household, and God continued to bless Joseph causing Potiphar to have complete confidence in Joseph.  The Bible mentions Potiphar trusted Joseph so much he didn’t concern himself with anything except the food he ate.  I know if I was Potiphar and only worried about the food I was eating…I most definitely would be fat.

Let’s talk about Potiphar for a second.  He was the captain of the guard, which meant he held a pretty high position in Egypt.  Obviously not as high as Pharaoh, but a very important position nonetheless.  Now the Bible doesn’t say, but I would have to imagine that Potiphar wad a very lovely wife.  It would be hard for me to accept that somebody as important and as powerful as Potiphar had an ugly wife.  Maybe she was, I don’t know; but what we do know, ugly or not, she had a burning desire for Joseph.  Verse seven of Genesis 39 says she “looked longingly at Joseph.”  That means she had googily eyes for him.

Potiphar’s wife tried time after time to woo Joseph into her bed; and even though she tried so hard, Joseph refused to sleep with her.  One day she had such a desire to take Joseph to bed she grabbed him by his garment and begged him to have sex with her.  Leaving his piece of clothing behind, Joseph ran outside and away from her.  When she realized a sexual rendezvous wasn’t going to happen and she still held his clothing, “she called the household servants. ‘Look,’ she said to them, ‘my husband brought a Hebrew man to make fools of us. He came to me so he could sleep with me, and I screamed as loud as I could.  When he heard me screaming for help, he left his garment with me and ran outside’” (Genesis 39:14-15).  Ahh, the wrath of a woman scorned. 

Potiphar’s wife keeps Joseph’s clothes next her on the bed and waits for Potiphar to come home.  She tells him the whole story of what happened (keep in mind her version of the story) and Potiphar becomes furious having Joseph thrown in jail.  Not just any jail, but the prison used for those who wrong Pharaoh, the king.  Of course the Lord was still with Joseph and still continued to bless him in everything he did.  Just as Potiphar had placed everything under Joseph’s control, so did the warden of the prison place everything under Joseph’s authority.

While in prison Joseph meets to guys who used to work for Pharaoh, the chief cupbearer and chief baker.  We don’t what they did exactly, but they offended Pharaoh in some way and he had them thrown into prison.  Maybe they served him an awful tasting wine and a birthday cake they should have been a strawberry cake instead of chocolate.

One night, on the same night, they both had a dream and woke up the next morning very troubled.  Having found out they both had dreams and were upset because they didn’t know what they meant, Joseph had them tell him the dreams so he could interpret them and show God’s power.  The cupbearer told Joseph this, “‘In my dream there was a vine in front of me.  On the vine were three branches.  As soon as it budded, its blossoms came out and its clusters ripened into grapes.  Pharaoh’s cup was in my hand, and I took the grapes, squeezed them into Pharaoh’s cup, and placed the cup in Pharaoh’s hand’” (Genesis 40:9-11).  Joseph goes on to interpret the dream telling the cupbearer, “‘The three branches are three days.  In just three days Pharaoh will lift up your head and restore you to your position.  You will put Pharaoh’s cup in his hand the way you used to when you were his cupbearer’” (Genesis 40:12-13).  Since the dream came with a happy ending, Joseph asked the cupbearer to remember him and tell Pharaoh what he had done for him so Pharaoh might release Joseph from prison.

Now the baker heard the wonderful news the cupbearer had just received and asked Joseph to tell him what his dream meant.  The baker says to Joseph, “‘I also had a dream. Three baskets of white bread were on my head.  In the top basket were all sorts of baked goods for Pharaoh, but the birds were eating them out of the basket on my head’” (Genesis 40:16-17).  Joseph interprets the bakers dream and says to him, “‘The three baskets are three days.  In just three days Pharaoh will lift up your head — from off you — and hang you on a tree. Then the birds will eat the flesh from your body’” (Genesis 40:18-19).  I think the baker regretted asking Joseph to interpret his dream.

Three days later Pharaoh has a birthday party and brings back the cupbearer and baker.  Pharaoh restores the cupbearer to his position, but has the baker hanged, just as Joseph had said.  However, the cupbearer did not remember to tell Pharaoh about Joseph and he remained in prison.  (Remember this friends…when the President of the United States asks you to make him a birthday cake, make sure you get it right!)

Two years has now passed and poor Joseph is still in jail.  Pharaoh now has a couple of dreams one night and is troubled by what they mean.  He calls for all the magicians and wise men of Egypt to interpret his dreams.  He tells them the dreams about how “He was standing beside the Nile, when seven healthy-looking, well-fed cows came up from the Nile and began to graze among the reeds.  After them, seven other cows, sickly and thin, came up from the Nile and stood beside those cows along the bank of the Nile.  The sickly, thin cows ate the healthy, well-fed cows.” (Genesis 41:1-4). And how “Seven heads of grain, plump and ripe, came up on one stalk.  After them, seven heads of grain, thin and scorched by the east wind, sprouted up.  The thin heads of grain swallowed up the seven plump, ripe ones.” (Genesis 41:5-7).  The magicians and wise men were unable to interpret Pharaoh’s dreams.  Then finally the cupbearer remembers that Joseph had asked him to tell Pharaoh about him and now proceeds to do so.  He told Pharaoh all about Joseph and how the dreams Joseph interpreted for him and the baker came true.

Pharaoh has Joseph brought to him and asks him to interpret the dreams.  Joseph humbly replies, “I cannot, but God can.”  I guess that answer was good enough for Pharaoh and he tells Joseph his dreams.  After hearing the dreams, Joseph replies,
“‘Pharaoh’s dreams mean the same thing.  God has revealed to Pharaoh what He is about to do.  The seven good cows are seven years, and the seven ripe heads are seven years.  The dreams mean the same thing.  The seven thin, ugly cows that came up after them are seven years, and the seven worthless, scorched heads of grain are seven years of famine.  It is just as I told Pharaoh: God has shown Pharaoh what He is about to do.  Seven years of great abundance are coming throughout the land of Egypt.  After them, seven years of famine will take place, and all the abundance in the land of Egypt will be forgotten.  The famine will devastate the land.  The abundance in the land will not be remembered because of the famine that follows it, for the famine will be very severe.  Since the dream was given twice to Pharaoh, it means that the matter has been determined by God, and He will carry it out soon’” (Genesis 41:25-32).

Not only did Joseph tell Pharaoh what the dream meant, but he also goes on to tell him how to prepare for the famine that is coming.  He tells Pharaoh to appoint a person who is very wise and discerning over the entire land of Egypt.  This person will help collect a portion of the harvest during the seven good years and keep it in storage so they will have it for the seven bad years of the famine.  This way, the famine will not affect them and they will be able to continue on with a happy life.

Pharaoh recognizes what amazing thing Joseph has just done and that there is nobody else like him.  In taking Joseph’s advice about the famine, Pharaoh appoints Joseph in charge by saying, “‘Since God has made all this know to you, there is no one as intelligent and wise as you are.  You will be over my house, and all my people will obey your commands.  Only with regard to the throne will I be greater than you’” (Genesis 41:39-40).  Whoa!  Joseph was just made the most powerful man in all of Egypt right behind Pharaoh.

The story of Joseph continues on talking about the steps he took to ensure Egypt was unharmed during the famine and how God blessed Joseph’s efforts in collecting food even greater than what anybody probably imagined. They were able to sell food to surrounding people who were not Egyptians but were also affected by the famine.  Of those people, was Joseph’s family. 

Jacob sends all of Joseph’s brothers except Benjamin to go get some food so they can survive the famine. Benjamin was the youngest and only other son besides Joseph to his wife Rachel.  Rachel had died will giving birth to Benjamin and Jacob held a special place in his heart for Benjamin much like he did for Joseph.

While in Egypt the brother’s meet the man who is the second greatest in all of Egypt, but don’t know it is really their brother Joseph.  Joseph accuses them of being spies and keeps Simeon in jail sending the rest of them back home telling them they can only get Simeon back if they return with their youngest brother, Benjamin.  Jacob of course refuses to send Benjamin back for fear of losing another son, especially since he belongs to Rachel.  Judah eventually convinces his father to let Benjamin return with them to Egypt in order to get back Simeon and buy more grain since their first batch had run out.  They also took double the amount of money to buy the grain since Joseph did not take any of their money the first time, as well as gifts from their land to give to Joseph.  They thought something had happened and were fearful when they realized they still had the money that was supposed to be used to buy the grain.  In order to show good favor they took extra money to buy more grain and return the money from their first purchase and to have Simeon released and Benjamin left unharmed.

While in Egypt a second time, they all had a feast together and Joseph sent them on their way back home.  Without they knowing he had a silver cup placed in Benjamin’s sack in order to test them and see of they were truly sorry for what they had to him.  The guards catch up to the brothers as they were leaving and brought them back to Joseph after finding the silver cup in Benjamin’s sack of grain.  Joseph declares the punishment for this is for Benjamin to remain in Egypt as his slave.

Upon hearing this, Judah pleas for Joseph to not keep Benjamin as his slave because of the deep sorrow it would bring to their father, Jacob.  Judah explains how they believe Joseph to be dead and if they were to return home without Benjamin, Jacob’s sorrow, for losing Joseph and now Benjamin, would be so great he would die in his sadness.  Joseph seeing the compassion his brother’s have for Benjamin and his father, becomes overwhelmed and sends everybody out of the room except for the brothers.  Joseph takes off his “Clark Kent glasses” and reveals himself to his brothers.

The relationship is now restored between Joseph and his brothers.  The story continues with Jacob being told Joseph is still alive and the whole family moving to Egypt to be with Joseph.

My Thoughts:
This is the classic story of Joseph that if you grew up in the church have probably heard so many times.  This story is used countless times to teach us countless lessons about family, faithfulness, love, fleeing from sin…I could really keep going and probably fill the rest of this page.  So if this is a story that we have been told many times before, and if this is a story that holds so many life lessons, then where is the fluff?  The fluff, for me, in this story comes from not compiling all those lessons and parts of Joseph’s life and seeing how his life can be so closely compared to that of another.

I mentioned at the beginning of this section who this story parallels.  Maybe you kept that in your head as you read through the story and saw places where we see Jesus based on Joseph’s life.  Maybe you are thinking, “Anthony, are you feeling ok?  Because I don’t see it.”  Or maybe you forgot and I just reminded you.  How about we look at this chart to see how close the similarities are between Joseph and Jesus…


Do you see it now?  Of course there are differences between Joseph and Jesus.  Joseph didn’t physically come back from the dead, but in the minds and hearts of his family who thought he was dead…Joseph came back to life.  Where the true parallelism comes for Joseph and Jesus is how Joseph lived his life.  A life where he loved those who treated him unfairly.  A life where he gave honor and glory to God for the things he accomplished.  A life, that I believe, falls in-line with Jesus’ teachings in Luke 9:23 and Paul’s teachings in Philippians 2:5. 

It is a daily choice to live according to how Jesus has called us to live.  A daily sacrifice to do what is right even it means people not understanding and giving you a hard time because of it.  In Luke 9:23 Jesus tells us, “If anyone wants to come with Me, he must deny himself, take up his cross daily, and follow Me.”  Joseph was beaten, sold into slavery, thrown into prison and forgotten about.  And even in the midst of all the horrible moments, he still praised, still honored and still gave credit to God.  Which in turn shows how much Joseph’s attitude through the good and bad times was truly reflective of God’s character.  That attitude and Godly spirit is how we should carry ourselves in all situations as Paul tells us in Philippians 2:5 “make your own attitude that of Christ Jesus.”

Believe me, all of this is A LOT harder to do than it is to read it right now on these pages.  In Genesis, we only glimpses of Joseph’s life.  We don’t see the times dad told him to do something and he gave a snarky remark back in opposition.  We don’t see the times mom told him to not go and play by those caves and he did it anyway.  We don’t see the times he messed up on the job and got a mark on his employee record with Potiphar or Pharaoh.  We don’t see the times that made Joseph just like you and me.  What we do see are the times Joseph had to make a choice to either do the right thing and honor God or do what he thought would have benefited him best.  What we do see is Joseph keeping his focus on Jesus.  What we do see is endurance in Joseph’s faith to keep on going and chasing after God rather than giving into temptation. 

Keeping your focus on Jesus keeps us in line with him and gives us the strength to keep living the way He wants us to.  Hebrews 12:1-2b says, “Therefore, since we also have such a large cloud of witnesses surrounding us, let us lay aside every weight and the sin that so easily ensnares us.  Let us run with endurance the race that lies before us, keeping our eyes on Jesus, the source and perfecter of our faith.”  Our faith is only strong when we have Jesus and others who are encouraging us along the way.  And when our faith is strong, our attitudes are more like Jesus than any other time.  Don’t think, however, you can have the Christ-like attitude and strong faith by going at it alone.  You need other people!

I have a good amount of people in my life who challenge me to be the Godliest person I can be.  I could easily list about ten names, but there are two who really keep me on my toes…my wife and my best friend.  My wife, Jen, is an amazing person!  (And yes, she is also my best friend or I probably wouldn’t have married her.)  She loves Jesus as much as, if not more, than I do.  She is always challenging me to be a better husband, father, friend and Christian example.  She is my saving grace and I would not be who I am with out her.  People, who know us and are reading this right now, might say I am not giving her enough credit, and they would be right…she is amazing.  Then there is Rob, my best friend and accountability partner.  We meet regularly, when he is not out of the country on some mission trip, to pray together and for each other.  If one of us does something dumb, the other has no fear in calling the other out without thought of damaging the relationship.  Our friendship is built on Christ and the understanding that we are friends, yes; but we are family first.  Friends come and go, but you always have family.  Family is loving and helpful with each other, but they are also honest and raw with each other.  Rob and I treat each other like brothers.

I might be going on a little tangent here, but what I want us to remember is living our life like Jesus means keeping our focus on Him.  And keeping on focus on Him can only be best done with other people helping.  In all things Joseph walked with God.  Keep your eyes on Jesus so you too can walk with God.

Discussion Questions:
  1. What about Joseph do you admire the most?
  2. Do you think there was any way Joseph could have handled certain situations differently?  If so, how would the outcome been different?
  3. What parts of your life (spiritual and non-spiritual) do you think could be a little better?
  4. On a scale of 1 to 10, how much do you think your life is parallel to Jesus’? (Be honest with yourself.  Giving a false number to this question will only hinder the growth you need to do in your faith.)
  5. Who do you know in your life would be more parallel with Jesus than you?  What about their life (spiritual and non-spiritual) makes you admire them?
  6. This is more of an assignment than a question, but go to that person and ask if they would be willing to be your accountability partner.  See if they would be willing to help you grow in your faith and make your life more parallel with Jesus’.
  7. What are steps you can take, besides the one we just mentioned, to help get you more in tuned with the way Jesus has called us to live?
  8. One last thing…make sure you end in prayer.