Tuesday, July 14, 2015

Being Different Does Matter

Being Different Does Matter
Judges 3:12-30 (HCSB)

The story today and the next several to follow are ones you may not have heard before, but if you have, I almost guarantee it has only been a handful of times if not less.  So where is the fluff in these stories?  Sometimes if they are told, we leave out the real gory details because these stories can get a little graphic and/or violent.  Before I continue on let me say, “I can’t say I didn’t warn you”, because these next several stories are ones I have even seen adults cringe over.

Being different doesn’t matter.  We have heard that phrase before.  Some people are black and some are white.  Some are boys and some are girls.  Some speak Spanish and some speak German.  Some are from Wyoming and some are from Georgia.  Let’s face it, no two people are alike…we are all different.  I guess you could make an argument for identical twins, but even then their personality will differ.  I know a few sets of twins, but these two especially I am thinking about, you better believe they are different from each other.  (If you are the two I am talking about and reading this…I love you Thing 1 and Thing 2!  That’s of course not really their names, but they did dress up like those Dr. Sues characters one time for Halloween.)  However, my friends, looking alike but still being different is what makes them so great!  How boring would it be if they were exactly the same?!  I mean one of them is enough!  I couldn’t handle it if they were exactly the same in every aspect.  I get overwhelmed just thinking about what my life would be like if that were true.

You being different than the person sitting next to you is what makes you so great!  You being different is what makes God so great!  You being different is exactly why God can use you in an extraordinary way!  And I love how society has begun to embrace differences in people as a good thing and not some “why are you so weird” thing.  Unfortunately in the recent history of our country, being different was a bad thing.  If you were black you were treated unfairly.  If you were a woman, you were treated unfairly.  If you had some kind of genetic condition, you were treated unfairly.  Throughout scripture, we see this happening amongst people, but in our story today we see God use this human error to His advantage to help free the Israelites. 

The Israelites now occupy present-day Israel.  They moved in and took over the land that technically belonged to them; they just had not been living in it for the last few hundred years.  While they were enslaved in Egypt other people occupied and lived off the land.  Well, all of a sudden these Hebrews come marching in and take it back.  How do you think that made the other people feel?  Pretty upset!  And because of this, it caused many battles to happen between the Israelites and the people of the surrounding nations.  Along with all of this conflict, the Israelites kept going back and forth between really following God and not paying much attention to Him.  When an army would come in and defeat the Israelites, the king of that nation would treat them very badly.  After many years, the Israelites would cry out to God for help and He would then send a judge or a prophet to help get rid of the enemy and bring them back to following God.  Our story today is about one of those judges who…was a little different.

Story Time:
The Israelites are again doing what the scriptures refer to as “evil in the Lord’s sight” (Judges 3:12), and so He allowed King Eglon of Moab to come in and gain power over Israel.  They served under Eglon’s thumb for 18 years.  After that time, the Israelites did what they normally do when they don’t like they way things are going for them…they cry out to God. 

What do you think that sounded like to God?  Especially hearing it over and over and over and over again.  Think about the one thing that really gets under your skin.  Nails on a chalkboard.  People who park their car on the wrong side of the gas pump.  Women or men who wear too much perfume or cologne.  Skinny jeans on men.  Noisy eaters.  (That one really gets me!!)  I wonder if God felt the same way, or if His love for His people was so great it didn’t matter.

Well God hears the cries and brings a left-handed man from the tribe of Benjamin named Ehud.  The people give him tribute money to take to King Eglon.  Besides having to serve Eglon, the Israelites also had to pay tribute money.  It was a price or a tax a ruler would set on people for his protection over them.  In cases like this, that was more than likely an unfair amount.  Ehud makes himself an 18-inch double-edged sword and he attaches it to his right thigh under his clothes.  I like to think one inch for every year Eglon ruled over Israel, but it more than likely because it couldn’t be too long since he was hiding it under his clothes.

We will pick back up with the story in a minute, but here is where the fact that Ehud was a little different comes into play.  Have you picked up on what is not normal about Ehud?  In today’s society, this is not really a big deal so you may have not even noticed it at all.  But even today people who have this difference are far outnumbered by people who don’t.  Ehud was left-handed.  This physical difference in Ehud is what made it possible for him to sneak the sword into the Eglon’s room.  Mostly a sword would have been carried on the outside of the clothing and may have been too long to even try to conceal underneath clothing.  With most people being right-handed, a sword would have been carried on the left side for easier access to use the sword if needed.  With this thought in mind, there is a possibility the guards may not have checked Ehud’s right side if they assumed his was right-handed like most people assuming he wasn’t carrying a sword if they couldn’t even see one.  Ok, so where were we….

Ehud enters the chambers of King Eglon to deliver the tribute money and tells the king he has a secret message for him.  Eglon has everybody leave the room so he can be alone with Ehud to hear the so-called secret message.  As Ehud approaches the king he says he has a word from God.  The extremely fat king stands up to hear the message.   Oh, did I forget to mention how fat this guy was? As he stands…I would describe what happens next myself, but the Bible does such a wonderful job, I will just let you read it for yourself.  “Ehud reached with his left hand, took the sword from his right thigh, and plunged it into Eglon’s belly.  Even the handle went in after the blade, and Eglon’s fat closed in over it so that Ehud did not withdraw the sword from his belly.  And Eglon’s insides came out” (Judges 3:21-22).  Ewww!

Ehud closed and locked the doors to the room and escaped by way of the porch.  After some time, the guards checked the room where the king was and found the doors locked.  They thought Eglon was going to the bathroom and that was why the doors were locked.  So they waited, and after some time they got worried.  What were they worried about?  That the king was sitting on the toilet for too long?  They unlocked the doors and found Eglon dead on the floor and no sign of Ehud.

Ehud then gathers up the men of Israel and the attack the Moabites killing about 10,000 of them.  At that time, Ehud became Israel’s leader and they experienced peace for 80 years.

My Thoughts:
God designed all of us differently.  Obviously you can tell that by looking at another person, but you can’t tell just by looking at them how God wired them differently than He did you.  The simple truth is God made us all different, but the awesome reality to that truth is how we are different.  I’m not talking about hair color, skin color, height or weight.  I’m talking about the unique talents and gifts God has placed in each one of us to use for His glory.

Yes, we are going to talk about spiritual gifts.  It is one of my favorite topics to teach and talk about.  I have taught many classes on the subject and helped many people figure out what their gifts are so they can better plug into serving in the community or church.  I would love to help you figure out what your spiritual gifts are, but if you don’t live near me I’m sure you don’t want to make that trip.  There are plenty of resources out there to help you determine what your gifts are.  Your church probably has some assessments available to you.  If not, then I recommend S.H.A.P.E. by Eric Rees.  Or go online to http://www.spiritualgiftstest.com/test; they have tests for both youth and adults.

What is awesome about these spiritual gifts you have, is the person who may be sitting in the room with you more than likely does not have the same gifts you have.  And if they do, they more than likely don’t have the same personality you do which would make them use their gifts in a different way.  And if they did have the same gifts and the exact same personality as you do…then I’m stumped.  But the odds of that happening are probably similar to winning the lottery. (Which if you are a lottery winner, then I got nothing.)  At the beginning of chapter 12 in 1 Corinthians, Paul tells says there different gifts from God, but how God decides who gets which one.  Read this:
“Now there are different gifts, but the same Spirit.  There are different ministries, but the same Lord.  And there are different activities, but the same God activates each gift in each person.  A demonstration of the Spirit is given to each person to produce what is beneficial: to one is given a message of wisdom through the Spirit, to another, a message of knowledge by the same Spirit, to another, faith by the same Spirit, to another, gifts of healing by the one Spirit, to another, the performing of miracles, to another, prophecy, to another, distinguishing between spirits, to another, different kinds of languages, to another, interpretation of languages. But one and the same Spirit is active in all these, distributing to each person as He wills” (1 Corinthians 12:4-11).
So we all have different gifts, but God, in His wonderfully complex genius of a plan, knows who needs what gifts and at what time they need them.

Ehud didn’t let the fact that he was different stop him from asking to do what God had called him to help accomplish.  God knew Ehud would be able to get closer to the king than somebody else, so Ehud used the fact that he was left-handed to his advantage.  God had a something that needed to be done and Ehud had the skill set. 

Allowing yourself to be open to what God has planned will permit Him to use you in ways you never thought possible.  You may end up teaching.  You may end up leading a Bible study.  You may end planning events for your church.  You may end up designing artwork or stage designs for Sunday mornings.  You may end up in China, India, Africa, Brazil or the Dominican Republic.  You may even bring another person into a relationship with Jesus Christ.  Is all of that crazy to think about?!

Being different is a good thing!  We don’t want to think and act the same as somebody else.  God wants to use you for something very special, so allow Him to use you!  If God has blessed you with a beautiful voice, then sing.  If God has given you skilled hands with a brush, then paint.  If God wants you to serve coffee, then serve coffee.  If God wants you to change babies’ diapers, then plug your nose and make that baby happy because it now has a clean bottom fitting snug in it’s new pair of Huggies!

There are opportunities in our world to serve.  There are opportunities in our nation, in our city, in our community, in our church and even on the street where we live.  See a need and turn it into an opportunity to serve God and His people by using the gifts he has given you.


Discussion Questions:
  1. Why do you think the Bible specifically points out the fact that Ehud was left-handed?
  2. Did God have to use Ehud to accomplish his mission?  Does God have to use us?
  3. If God is all-powerful and awesome, then why does He use us to carry out the things He wants to be done?
  4. What do you think your spiritual gifts are?
  5. What are some things you are passionate about?
  6. What are you good at doing?
  7. Think about how your answers to questions #4, #5 and #6 relate to each other.  How and/or where do you think you can serve in your church or community?
  8. What is one thing you have always wanted to do, but have held back because you didn’t think you could? (If you are doing this with a group of people, tell them to “DO IT!”)
  9. One last thing…make sure you end in prayer.

Wednesday, July 2, 2014

A Parallel Life

A Parallel Life
Genesis 37:1-23; 39:1-45:15 (HCSB)

Allow me to start off this chapter with a question for you to think about or discuss with your family or small group…
If somebody were to watch a movie about your life, would they try to compare you to Jesus?

Have you noticed how we try to compare things to Christianity or even Jesus?  I bet you can think of a movie that could closely relate to Jesus.  I have heard people say movies like The Matrix, The Lord of the Rings or even Superman Returns all have elements that point towards Jesus.  I even have books on my shelf that look into media and how it can be tied into Jesus, faith, and Christianity.  One of them is titled The Gospel Reloaded, and the book explores spirituality and faith found in The Matrix.  Ok, I can see how certain things in those movies can be looked at with some similarity to Jesus.  There is another book on my shelf, The Gospel According to The Simpsons.  This book talks about all of the spiritual elements found in the TV series and how they point to different religions and their beliefs.  Yes, there are a lot of religious elements found in that show, but there is no way I would ever think The Simpsons was intentionally written for us to look to Jesus.  I even have a hard time believing The Matrix or Superman Returns were written to reflect Christ.

Now please, don’t get me wrong, I love movies.  I mean I really love movies.  My wife can attest to my love (she calls addiction) to movies.  I use them all the time when preaching or teaching to help illustrate a point.  One church I worked for in Maryland did a series every summer based on current Hollywood movies and what we can learn from them.  Great stuff can be taught from watching other people go through life’s trials and experiences, but I simply have a hard time believing certain movies were made to tell about Jesus. 

I am not trying to make fun of anybody who sees Christ portrayed through certain media.  If they see it and feel God there, then that is something between them and God; and I am in no place to argue or judge.  All I am saying is if you want an attention-grabbing movie to reach people and tell the greatest story ever…then make a movie about Jesus.  Examples…The Passion of The Christ and Son of God.

But there are stories that point towards Jesus and should be looked at with Jesus in mind.  Which ones are they?  Every single story found in the Bible.  There is a fantastic children’s book written by Sally Llyod-Jones called The Jesus Storybook Bible: Every Story Whispers His Name.  She tells the stories of the Bible and how Jesus is present or pointed to in every single part of scripture, and I could not agree with her more!

Our story today is one I believe points towards the life of Jesus.  When Joseph is taught about, we very often pick apart his life using this instance or that moment.  What if we looked at his life in one big story all at once from his dreams till he brings his family to Egypt? I believe the story of Joseph parallels Jesus’ life so closely, we see God’s plan for what Jesus would eventually do for us.  Keep Jesus’ life in mind while you ready about Joseph.

Story Time:
Joseph’s Life: Dreams to Brother Reveal
Jacob, who was also called Israel, lived in the land of Canaan and had many sons, one known as Joseph.  When Joseph was about seventeen years old, he would tend the sheep with his brothers and report back to Jacob what was going on out in the pasture. 

Jacob made for Joseph a robe of many colors because he loved Joseph more than any of his other sons.  This robe would have been very beautiful and very expensive because of the high cost of the colored threads used to make it, not the type of clothing you would have seen a shepherd wearing.  This robe was a one of a kind and not duplicated for the other brothers.  It became obvious that Jacob loved Joseph more than the rest of them and they hated him deeply.  They couldn’t even speak to him in a loving way.

Joseph then begins having dreams.  These aren’t just any old dreams about flying or swimming in ice cream, these were prophetic dreams, dreams about the future and what God had in-store for Joseph.  As we will see later, God gave Joseph the ability to interpret dreams and help people understand what they meant.

He tells his brothers his first dream by saying, “’There we were, binding sheaves of grain in the field.  Suddenly my sheaf stood up, and your sheaves gathered around it and bowed down to my sheaf’” (Genesis 37:7).  I guess when all you do all day is work in the fields, you dream about grain.  Doesn’t sound like the kind of dream you wake up from excited to tell others…but Joseph did.  He told his brothers, and instead of them being curious about the dream, they hated even more because the dream implied Joseph would rule over them.

You think Joseph would have learned from the mocking he received from his first dream; he would have kept the next one to himself.  Well he didn’t learn, and he didn’t keep it to himself.  He not only told his brothers the dream, but his father as well.  In this dream the sun, moon and eleven stars bowed down to him.  Of course this made his brothers jealous of him and hate him even more.  His father, Jacob, even rebuked him saying, “What is this dream?  Do you think we are all going to bow to you?”  However, even though Jacob rebuked him, he kept the thought in the back of his mind.

Sometime later Joseph’s brothers were tending flocks near the town of Schechem.  Israel (also known as Jacob) sends Joseph to go check on them and bring a report back to him.  Now Joseph being the good obedient son does what his father asks, but did he not remember his brothers hate him?  Did that thought not pass through his head and say, “Sure dad, if you really want me to do this, I will.  But I don’t think it is such a good idea on account of MY BROTHERS HATE MY GUTS!!”  Maybe Joseph really had no idea his brothers felt the way they did?  Maybe he did know, but didn’t really care what they thought about him?  This is the part in the movie where you are yelling at the TV, “Really Joseph?!  Don’t go!  They want to hurt you!”  All we know is he is told to go and he obeys.

Let’s quickly look at a list of reasons Joseph’s brothers hated him so much before we continue on with our story.  This will help us better understand why there was such hatred.
1.     Joseph was the youngest.  Do you have a younger sibling who you feel gets more attention than you do?
2.     Joseph was given nice gifts while his brothers did not.  Imagine how you would feel left out or unfairly treated if your younger brother or sister got a really nice expensive gift and you got nothing.  Would you wonder why?
3.     Joseph was the son of Rachel and Jacob’s favorite.  Jacob had 4 wives – Leah, Rachel, Bilhah and Zilpah.  Bilhah and Zilpah were also the maidservants of Leah and Rachel.  Leah was a very unattractive woman who was Rachel’s sister and the first women Jacob married.  He was tricked into marrying her and didn’t really want to.  His heart was always set on Rachel.  A beautiful woman, whom he married, loved more than anything and only gave him two children, Joseph and Benjamin.
4.     Joseph had dreams, the he shared to his family, about how he was going to be greater and rule over them. Obviously it created hatred and jealousy.
5.     I’m sure there are even more reasons as to why Joseph was so hated by his brothers that it caused them to contemplate murder.

Joseph’s brothers seeing him coming in the distance and they begin to talk about killing him.  Their hatred and jealousy had gotten so bad; they were willing to kill their own brother.  They were going to hide his body in a deep pit or cistern and say he was attacked and killed by a wild animal.  All that just so they didn’t have to listen to his dreams anymore.

As they were plotting how to kill Joseph, Reuben, the oldest brother, steps in and tries to save Joseph.  He convinces them to not kill Joseph, but instead just toss him into one of the deep pits.  Now we can speculate why Reuben stepped in, but all we know was his intentions were to save Joseph, come back for him and return him to his father.  Probably to try and earn some points on the “who does daddy love more scale” so he could at least be the second favorite.  Especially since, according to Genesis 35:22, Reuben sleeps with Bilhah, his stepmother, which doesn’t make Jacob happy.  The point is, we don’t know the true meaning behind Ruben’s intentions; all we know is he was able to keep Joseph alive.

Joseph reaches his brothers and as soon as he does, they grabbed him, tore off his robe given to him by Jacob and tossed him into one of the pits.  I wonder if Joseph was surprised when his brothers attacked him?  Maybe he had been expecting something to happen to him if he had any indication that his brothers hated him?  Either way, I can only imagine he was scared and heartbroken by the events that just took place.

The brothers sit down for a meal and see some Ishmaelite travelers in the distance.  At this point Judah steps in and speaks up to sell Joseph to the Ishmaelites instead of killing him.  They all seem to agree with this new plan and sell Joseph for 20 pieces of silver.  Joseph is now under the control of these Ishmaelite travelers and is taken to Egypt.

Apparently Reuben was not around for the selling transaction of Joseph, because verse 29 of Genesis chapter 37 indicates he returned to find Joseph gone.  Reuben then tears his clothes upon seeing Joseph gone as a sign of sadness or being distraught.  We don’t know if Reuben tore his clothes because his plan had be foiled to return Joseph to his father; or if he thought he brothers had gone ahead with the plan to kill him.  Most people believe the latter.  Maybe it was a little of both?

In order to cover up the fact that Joseph was missing, the brothers slaughtered a goat and dipped Joseph’s robe in the blood.  Hoping to fool their father into thinking Joseph was dead they took him the now blood stained robe for him to see.  When Jacob saw the robe covered in blood he tore his clothes, put sackcloth around his waist, mourned for several days.  His children tried to comfort him, but he refused.  As for Joseph…the Ishmaelites sold him to Potiphar, an Egyptian and captain of the guard.

Joseph now begins a new life in Egypt serving under Potiphar.  God blessed Joseph in everything he did and Potiphar came to notice how everything Joseph did or was a part of he was very successful.  When Potiphar saw this, he placed Joseph in charge of everything he owned and of his entire household, and God continued to bless Joseph causing Potiphar to have complete confidence in Joseph.  The Bible mentions Potiphar trusted Joseph so much he didn’t concern himself with anything except the food he ate.  I know if I was Potiphar and only worried about the food I was eating…I most definitely would be fat.

Let’s talk about Potiphar for a second.  He was the captain of the guard, which meant he held a pretty high position in Egypt.  Obviously not as high as Pharaoh, but a very important position nonetheless.  Now the Bible doesn’t say, but I would have to imagine that Potiphar wad a very lovely wife.  It would be hard for me to accept that somebody as important and as powerful as Potiphar had an ugly wife.  Maybe she was, I don’t know; but what we do know, ugly or not, she had a burning desire for Joseph.  Verse seven of Genesis 39 says she “looked longingly at Joseph.”  That means she had googily eyes for him.

Potiphar’s wife tried time after time to woo Joseph into her bed; and even though she tried so hard, Joseph refused to sleep with her.  One day she had such a desire to take Joseph to bed she grabbed him by his garment and begged him to have sex with her.  Leaving his piece of clothing behind, Joseph ran outside and away from her.  When she realized a sexual rendezvous wasn’t going to happen and she still held his clothing, “she called the household servants. ‘Look,’ she said to them, ‘my husband brought a Hebrew man to make fools of us. He came to me so he could sleep with me, and I screamed as loud as I could.  When he heard me screaming for help, he left his garment with me and ran outside’” (Genesis 39:14-15).  Ahh, the wrath of a woman scorned. 

Potiphar’s wife keeps Joseph’s clothes next her on the bed and waits for Potiphar to come home.  She tells him the whole story of what happened (keep in mind her version of the story) and Potiphar becomes furious having Joseph thrown in jail.  Not just any jail, but the prison used for those who wrong Pharaoh, the king.  Of course the Lord was still with Joseph and still continued to bless him in everything he did.  Just as Potiphar had placed everything under Joseph’s control, so did the warden of the prison place everything under Joseph’s authority.

While in prison Joseph meets to guys who used to work for Pharaoh, the chief cupbearer and chief baker.  We don’t what they did exactly, but they offended Pharaoh in some way and he had them thrown into prison.  Maybe they served him an awful tasting wine and a birthday cake they should have been a strawberry cake instead of chocolate.

One night, on the same night, they both had a dream and woke up the next morning very troubled.  Having found out they both had dreams and were upset because they didn’t know what they meant, Joseph had them tell him the dreams so he could interpret them and show God’s power.  The cupbearer told Joseph this, “‘In my dream there was a vine in front of me.  On the vine were three branches.  As soon as it budded, its blossoms came out and its clusters ripened into grapes.  Pharaoh’s cup was in my hand, and I took the grapes, squeezed them into Pharaoh’s cup, and placed the cup in Pharaoh’s hand’” (Genesis 40:9-11).  Joseph goes on to interpret the dream telling the cupbearer, “‘The three branches are three days.  In just three days Pharaoh will lift up your head and restore you to your position.  You will put Pharaoh’s cup in his hand the way you used to when you were his cupbearer’” (Genesis 40:12-13).  Since the dream came with a happy ending, Joseph asked the cupbearer to remember him and tell Pharaoh what he had done for him so Pharaoh might release Joseph from prison.

Now the baker heard the wonderful news the cupbearer had just received and asked Joseph to tell him what his dream meant.  The baker says to Joseph, “‘I also had a dream. Three baskets of white bread were on my head.  In the top basket were all sorts of baked goods for Pharaoh, but the birds were eating them out of the basket on my head’” (Genesis 40:16-17).  Joseph interprets the bakers dream and says to him, “‘The three baskets are three days.  In just three days Pharaoh will lift up your head — from off you — and hang you on a tree. Then the birds will eat the flesh from your body’” (Genesis 40:18-19).  I think the baker regretted asking Joseph to interpret his dream.

Three days later Pharaoh has a birthday party and brings back the cupbearer and baker.  Pharaoh restores the cupbearer to his position, but has the baker hanged, just as Joseph had said.  However, the cupbearer did not remember to tell Pharaoh about Joseph and he remained in prison.  (Remember this friends…when the President of the United States asks you to make him a birthday cake, make sure you get it right!)

Two years has now passed and poor Joseph is still in jail.  Pharaoh now has a couple of dreams one night and is troubled by what they mean.  He calls for all the magicians and wise men of Egypt to interpret his dreams.  He tells them the dreams about how “He was standing beside the Nile, when seven healthy-looking, well-fed cows came up from the Nile and began to graze among the reeds.  After them, seven other cows, sickly and thin, came up from the Nile and stood beside those cows along the bank of the Nile.  The sickly, thin cows ate the healthy, well-fed cows.” (Genesis 41:1-4). And how “Seven heads of grain, plump and ripe, came up on one stalk.  After them, seven heads of grain, thin and scorched by the east wind, sprouted up.  The thin heads of grain swallowed up the seven plump, ripe ones.” (Genesis 41:5-7).  The magicians and wise men were unable to interpret Pharaoh’s dreams.  Then finally the cupbearer remembers that Joseph had asked him to tell Pharaoh about him and now proceeds to do so.  He told Pharaoh all about Joseph and how the dreams Joseph interpreted for him and the baker came true.

Pharaoh has Joseph brought to him and asks him to interpret the dreams.  Joseph humbly replies, “I cannot, but God can.”  I guess that answer was good enough for Pharaoh and he tells Joseph his dreams.  After hearing the dreams, Joseph replies,
“‘Pharaoh’s dreams mean the same thing.  God has revealed to Pharaoh what He is about to do.  The seven good cows are seven years, and the seven ripe heads are seven years.  The dreams mean the same thing.  The seven thin, ugly cows that came up after them are seven years, and the seven worthless, scorched heads of grain are seven years of famine.  It is just as I told Pharaoh: God has shown Pharaoh what He is about to do.  Seven years of great abundance are coming throughout the land of Egypt.  After them, seven years of famine will take place, and all the abundance in the land of Egypt will be forgotten.  The famine will devastate the land.  The abundance in the land will not be remembered because of the famine that follows it, for the famine will be very severe.  Since the dream was given twice to Pharaoh, it means that the matter has been determined by God, and He will carry it out soon’” (Genesis 41:25-32).

Not only did Joseph tell Pharaoh what the dream meant, but he also goes on to tell him how to prepare for the famine that is coming.  He tells Pharaoh to appoint a person who is very wise and discerning over the entire land of Egypt.  This person will help collect a portion of the harvest during the seven good years and keep it in storage so they will have it for the seven bad years of the famine.  This way, the famine will not affect them and they will be able to continue on with a happy life.

Pharaoh recognizes what amazing thing Joseph has just done and that there is nobody else like him.  In taking Joseph’s advice about the famine, Pharaoh appoints Joseph in charge by saying, “‘Since God has made all this know to you, there is no one as intelligent and wise as you are.  You will be over my house, and all my people will obey your commands.  Only with regard to the throne will I be greater than you’” (Genesis 41:39-40).  Whoa!  Joseph was just made the most powerful man in all of Egypt right behind Pharaoh.

The story of Joseph continues on talking about the steps he took to ensure Egypt was unharmed during the famine and how God blessed Joseph’s efforts in collecting food even greater than what anybody probably imagined. They were able to sell food to surrounding people who were not Egyptians but were also affected by the famine.  Of those people, was Joseph’s family. 

Jacob sends all of Joseph’s brothers except Benjamin to go get some food so they can survive the famine. Benjamin was the youngest and only other son besides Joseph to his wife Rachel.  Rachel had died will giving birth to Benjamin and Jacob held a special place in his heart for Benjamin much like he did for Joseph.

While in Egypt the brother’s meet the man who is the second greatest in all of Egypt, but don’t know it is really their brother Joseph.  Joseph accuses them of being spies and keeps Simeon in jail sending the rest of them back home telling them they can only get Simeon back if they return with their youngest brother, Benjamin.  Jacob of course refuses to send Benjamin back for fear of losing another son, especially since he belongs to Rachel.  Judah eventually convinces his father to let Benjamin return with them to Egypt in order to get back Simeon and buy more grain since their first batch had run out.  They also took double the amount of money to buy the grain since Joseph did not take any of their money the first time, as well as gifts from their land to give to Joseph.  They thought something had happened and were fearful when they realized they still had the money that was supposed to be used to buy the grain.  In order to show good favor they took extra money to buy more grain and return the money from their first purchase and to have Simeon released and Benjamin left unharmed.

While in Egypt a second time, they all had a feast together and Joseph sent them on their way back home.  Without they knowing he had a silver cup placed in Benjamin’s sack in order to test them and see of they were truly sorry for what they had to him.  The guards catch up to the brothers as they were leaving and brought them back to Joseph after finding the silver cup in Benjamin’s sack of grain.  Joseph declares the punishment for this is for Benjamin to remain in Egypt as his slave.

Upon hearing this, Judah pleas for Joseph to not keep Benjamin as his slave because of the deep sorrow it would bring to their father, Jacob.  Judah explains how they believe Joseph to be dead and if they were to return home without Benjamin, Jacob’s sorrow, for losing Joseph and now Benjamin, would be so great he would die in his sadness.  Joseph seeing the compassion his brother’s have for Benjamin and his father, becomes overwhelmed and sends everybody out of the room except for the brothers.  Joseph takes off his “Clark Kent glasses” and reveals himself to his brothers.

The relationship is now restored between Joseph and his brothers.  The story continues with Jacob being told Joseph is still alive and the whole family moving to Egypt to be with Joseph.

My Thoughts:
This is the classic story of Joseph that if you grew up in the church have probably heard so many times.  This story is used countless times to teach us countless lessons about family, faithfulness, love, fleeing from sin…I could really keep going and probably fill the rest of this page.  So if this is a story that we have been told many times before, and if this is a story that holds so many life lessons, then where is the fluff?  The fluff, for me, in this story comes from not compiling all those lessons and parts of Joseph’s life and seeing how his life can be so closely compared to that of another.

I mentioned at the beginning of this section who this story parallels.  Maybe you kept that in your head as you read through the story and saw places where we see Jesus based on Joseph’s life.  Maybe you are thinking, “Anthony, are you feeling ok?  Because I don’t see it.”  Or maybe you forgot and I just reminded you.  How about we look at this chart to see how close the similarities are between Joseph and Jesus…


Do you see it now?  Of course there are differences between Joseph and Jesus.  Joseph didn’t physically come back from the dead, but in the minds and hearts of his family who thought he was dead…Joseph came back to life.  Where the true parallelism comes for Joseph and Jesus is how Joseph lived his life.  A life where he loved those who treated him unfairly.  A life where he gave honor and glory to God for the things he accomplished.  A life, that I believe, falls in-line with Jesus’ teachings in Luke 9:23 and Paul’s teachings in Philippians 2:5. 

It is a daily choice to live according to how Jesus has called us to live.  A daily sacrifice to do what is right even it means people not understanding and giving you a hard time because of it.  In Luke 9:23 Jesus tells us, “If anyone wants to come with Me, he must deny himself, take up his cross daily, and follow Me.”  Joseph was beaten, sold into slavery, thrown into prison and forgotten about.  And even in the midst of all the horrible moments, he still praised, still honored and still gave credit to God.  Which in turn shows how much Joseph’s attitude through the good and bad times was truly reflective of God’s character.  That attitude and Godly spirit is how we should carry ourselves in all situations as Paul tells us in Philippians 2:5 “make your own attitude that of Christ Jesus.”

Believe me, all of this is A LOT harder to do than it is to read it right now on these pages.  In Genesis, we only glimpses of Joseph’s life.  We don’t see the times dad told him to do something and he gave a snarky remark back in opposition.  We don’t see the times mom told him to not go and play by those caves and he did it anyway.  We don’t see the times he messed up on the job and got a mark on his employee record with Potiphar or Pharaoh.  We don’t see the times that made Joseph just like you and me.  What we do see are the times Joseph had to make a choice to either do the right thing and honor God or do what he thought would have benefited him best.  What we do see is Joseph keeping his focus on Jesus.  What we do see is endurance in Joseph’s faith to keep on going and chasing after God rather than giving into temptation. 

Keeping your focus on Jesus keeps us in line with him and gives us the strength to keep living the way He wants us to.  Hebrews 12:1-2b says, “Therefore, since we also have such a large cloud of witnesses surrounding us, let us lay aside every weight and the sin that so easily ensnares us.  Let us run with endurance the race that lies before us, keeping our eyes on Jesus, the source and perfecter of our faith.”  Our faith is only strong when we have Jesus and others who are encouraging us along the way.  And when our faith is strong, our attitudes are more like Jesus than any other time.  Don’t think, however, you can have the Christ-like attitude and strong faith by going at it alone.  You need other people!

I have a good amount of people in my life who challenge me to be the Godliest person I can be.  I could easily list about ten names, but there are two who really keep me on my toes…my wife and my best friend.  My wife, Jen, is an amazing person!  (And yes, she is also my best friend or I probably wouldn’t have married her.)  She loves Jesus as much as, if not more, than I do.  She is always challenging me to be a better husband, father, friend and Christian example.  She is my saving grace and I would not be who I am with out her.  People, who know us and are reading this right now, might say I am not giving her enough credit, and they would be right…she is amazing.  Then there is Rob, my best friend and accountability partner.  We meet regularly, when he is not out of the country on some mission trip, to pray together and for each other.  If one of us does something dumb, the other has no fear in calling the other out without thought of damaging the relationship.  Our friendship is built on Christ and the understanding that we are friends, yes; but we are family first.  Friends come and go, but you always have family.  Family is loving and helpful with each other, but they are also honest and raw with each other.  Rob and I treat each other like brothers.

I might be going on a little tangent here, but what I want us to remember is living our life like Jesus means keeping our focus on Him.  And keeping on focus on Him can only be best done with other people helping.  In all things Joseph walked with God.  Keep your eyes on Jesus so you too can walk with God.

Discussion Questions:
  1. What about Joseph do you admire the most?
  2. Do you think there was any way Joseph could have handled certain situations differently?  If so, how would the outcome been different?
  3. What parts of your life (spiritual and non-spiritual) do you think could be a little better?
  4. On a scale of 1 to 10, how much do you think your life is parallel to Jesus’? (Be honest with yourself.  Giving a false number to this question will only hinder the growth you need to do in your faith.)
  5. Who do you know in your life would be more parallel with Jesus than you?  What about their life (spiritual and non-spiritual) makes you admire them?
  6. This is more of an assignment than a question, but go to that person and ask if they would be willing to be your accountability partner.  See if they would be willing to help you grow in your faith and make your life more parallel with Jesus’.
  7. What are steps you can take, besides the one we just mentioned, to help get you more in tuned with the way Jesus has called us to live?
  8. One last thing…make sure you end in prayer.

Wednesday, January 22, 2014

Give It Up

Genesis 22:1-19 (HCSB)

Would you consider yourself a pretty faithful person?  I don’t mean in the spiritual sense, but just in everyday life.  For example, I am pretty faithful to the San Francisco 49ers.  I like other teams, but I will always pull for the 49ers over anybody else…especially over the Cowboys. 

Let’s take a moment to rate how devoted you are to certain things.  Now, you need to be honest.  Don’t rate yourself based on how faithful you think you should be, but how faithful you truly are to the following.  Use the 1 to 10 scales below with 1 being not very faithful and 10 being very faithful.
Family
1     2     3     4     5     6     7     8     9     10
Spouse
1     2     3     4     5     6     7     8     9     10
Job
1     2     3     4     5     6     7     8     9     10
Favorite TV Show
1     2     3     4     5     6     7     8     9     10
Sports Team(s)
1     2     3     4     5     6     7     8     9     10
Working Out
1     2     3     4     5     6     7     8     9     10
Morning Coffee
1     2     3     4     5     6     7     8     9     10

Were you totally honest?  Did you rate any of those a 10?  Did some get a higher rating than they probably should have?

The thing is, we all have something outside of the obvious ones of God, family, spouse and job that we would rate pretty high on the scale.  We probably don’t think too much about being so devoted to something outside of the obvious, but when we look at it on paper it seems pretty silly we are so devoted and faithful to a certain football team, TV show or whatever it may be.  Do you give God that much devotion?  Is your faithfulness to Him so solid you would have to write in an 11 on the scale?

Our story is one I think is told quite a bit, but usually glanced over when it comes to what we can really pull out of these scriptures.  Our story is probably used to teach about being faithful to God almost 100% of the time it is told.  I want to take the story of Abraham being asked to sacrifice his son one step further.

Story Time:
Abraham has recently had the son God promised him.  He already has a son through Sarah’s servant, Haggar, who is named Ishmael.  However, God promised him a son born from Sarah.  This son is named Isaac.  Abraham now has a son, tons of riches and a lot of cattle and flocks.  God has truly blessed Abraham.

God now wants to see how faithful Abraham is to Him after all that has gone on in his life.  God asks what seems to be the unimaginable, the impossible, the “you have got to be joking!”  God asks Abraham to sacrifice Isaac.  What?!  (Who by the way is Abraham’s only son through his wife, Sarah?!)  The son God promised him?!  The son who is supposed to give Abraham tons and tons of descendants?! 

Now I have to be honest.  You would probably throw this book away if I weren’t.  What would I do if God asked me to sacrifice one or both of my daughters?  I don’t know.  I really don’t.  I will touch more on my thoughts and feelings on this later.

But what amazes me is Abraham’s response.  In verse 2 of Genesis 22 God asks Abraham to sacrifice his son, and then in verse 3 (The very next verse!) Abraham basically says, “Ok.”  I am amazed by Abraham’s actions.  The Bible, at least in Genesis 22, doesn’t talk about what Abraham’s full reaction was to God.  Did he argue this notion?  He certainly did when God looked at destroying Sodom and Gomorrah, so you would think he might not be shy to challenge God here.  After the story we are going to look at this aspect of Abraham’s faith.

So the next day Abraham gets up and with his son, Isaac, and two servants heads off to the place God told him to go to for the sacrifice; a three day journey.  When they get close, Abraham tells his servants to stay back with the donkey while he and Isaac go off to worship.  Now I don’t know if this is another indication of Abraham’s faith or not, but he also tells his servants that when they are done worshiping, “we’ll come back to you.”  Something we will look at after the story, but I wanted you to begin thinking about now.

Now Isaac is no dummy.  He has watched and probably been a part of many sacrifices with his father.  Sacrifice of animals was very big part of worshiping God.  Isaac questions his father about all that they have for the sacrifice.  They have the fire and the wood, but Isaac asks where the lamb is for the burnt offering.  I think again we see Abraham’s faith in his response to Isaac that God will provide the lamb.  Little did Isaac know that he was going to be the one on top of the altar.

They arrive at the place God told Abraham about and Abraham builds the altar.  He then ties up Isaac, places him on the altar and takes out his knife to offer his son.  In that moment an Angel of the Lord calls out and tells Abraham not to kill his son.  The angel says, “Do not lay a hand on the boy or do anything to him.  For now I know that you fear God, since you have not withheld your only son from Me” (Genesis 22:12).  Abraham then sees a ram caught in a thicket and uses it instead of his son as the sacrifice.

Our story ends with the Angel speaking to Abraham one more time.  The Angel delivers and reaffirms the blessing and promise Abraham has been told about his descendants.  In verses 15-18 it says,
“Then the Angel of the Lord called to Abraham a second time from heaven and said, ‘By myself I have sworn,’ this is the Lord’s declaration: ‘Because you have done this thing and not withheld your only son, I will indeed bless you and make your offspring as numerous as the stars in the sky and the sand on the seashore.  Your offspring will possess the gates of their enemies.  And all the nations of the earth will be blessed by your offspring because you have obeyed My command.’”
In a nutshell…your family and their families and their families will be really huge and really awesome!

My Thoughts:
I have always wondered what was going in Isaac’s head during all of this.  Did he fight back when his dad started to tie him up?  Did he scream for help?  Did he receive emotional scars for life because of this?  We don’t really know, and the Bible doesn’t say.  So by the lack of information, it looks like Isaac went along with all that was happening.  I think that now puts the question out there of how much faith Isaac may have had in his father.  Did he see so much faith towards God in his father that he put the same amount of faith into Abraham?  I personally like to hold to this line of thinking to use as example of how much impact a father has and should have on his children.  How a father is supposed to lead his family and raise his children by and through faith in God.

Obviously this story is about the faith that Abraham has in God, but I think sometimes that is all we say about it.  We brush over this story as just an example of great faith placed in God, but what about some of the other details in this story?  Like the fact he was about to kill his own son!  Like how Abraham seemed to not argue against this request from God!

I mean we are talking about potentially having to kill your own child.  Could you willingly do it if God asked you to?  How is it that Abraham seems so content with carrying out this request?  Did he challenge God’s motives when asked to sacrifice his son?  Was he in emotional turmoil over having to carry out this action?  Did he struggle with thoughts of disobeying God and not killing his own son?  As far as we know all of that could have happened, but the Bible just doesn’t mention it.  The other possibility is Abraham acted just the way the scriptures make it seem...cool, calm and collected.

I actually think it was a little of both, and here is why.  If you have your Bible, flip over to the book of Hebrews.  If you have your smart phone, then open up your Bible app.  Or if you are one of those people that have it all memorized, then I envy you. Hebrews 11:17-19 says,
“By faith Abraham, when he was tested, offered up Isaac.  He received the promises and he was offering his unique son, the one it had been said about, your seed will be traced through Isaac.  He considered God to be able even to raise someone from the dead, and as an illustration, he received him back.”

Abraham truly believed God would bring Isaac back to life if the whole sacrifice played out to the end.  I think it is safe to assume that even with the amount of deep faith he was placing in God, he was also struggling with the having to raise a knife against his own son.  Don’t forget, Abraham was still a human.  He was a father who had waited a very long time to have a child.  He was just like me and you…well sort of.  Ask yourself this question and take God out of the picture for a moment, would you be able to kill your own child?  No way!  Of course we wouldn’t be able to take the life of somebody we love so dearly.  Ok, let me ask the question again, but this time with God back in the mix.  If God asked you to sacrifice your child, would you do it?

Does you answer come as quickly as it did the first time, or do you stop to think about it a little? I have two daughters who I love very much.  They are very important to me.  There is nothing I wouldn’t do for them.  Except eat cinnamon.  I can’t stand cinnamon.  But I hope my girls love me enough to never ask me to eat cinnamon.  Anyway, my daughters are my world and I can’t even begin to imagine God asking me to sacrifice one or both of them.  So if I am being honest, I honestly don’t know what I would do.

I think the real question God is asking us here, is what are you willing to sacrifice for Me?  What are you willing to give up for Me?  That seems like easy questions.  We are probably thinking, “Of course I would give that up if God asked me to.”  But I don’t think what God may ask you to sacrifice for Him is going to be as simple as eliminating Double Stuffed Oreos from your diet.  It will be what He feels is getting more value or importance than He is from you.

When God asks you to give up something for Him, it won’t be easy.

Discussion Questions:
  1. How do you think Abraham handled God asking him to sacrifice his son?
  2. Why do you think God asked Abraham to sacrifice Isaac and not something else?
  3. No wrong answer here, but what would you do if God asked you to sacrifice your child?
  4. Why do you think God asks us to let go and/or get rid of things from our life?
  5. Do you think God today would ask us to sacrifice our child?  Yes or No?  If yes, in what way?
  6. What is it that God may be asking you sacrifice?
  7. On a scale of 1 to 10, how hard does it feel to give it up? 
  8. One last thing…make sure you end in prayer.